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Moments before Hoosiers took the streets to rejoice the Colts first Super Bowl victory since 1971, sports announcers were commenting on the NFL’s first black head coach to ever raise the Vincent Lombardi trophy, Tony Dungy. Yet somehow, it really wasn’t about the color of his skin but the color of his character that got everyone’s attention: true blue!
By his own admission he stated that he tried to guide the team to the summit applying Christian principles to his leadership style. It was reported that when his squad of veterans and rookies huddle together for the first time last summer, some of his first words were spoken in a normal conversant manner, saying something to the effect that this was as loud as he would raise his voice all year, so they better pay attention. There would be tone of love and respect and absolutely no profanity from his lips.
He was true to his word and last night, Coach Dungy would have his moment to send a message not only across the Hoosier state but across the land that there’s more than one way to mold a team for success. Yet somehow it seems that God planted Tony Dungy just an hour away from Bloomington Indiana.
Winning in Indiana, to this point, has been achieved just one way, the Bobby Knight way. Did last night’s victory mark the start of a new model for coaching in this state. Did all aspiring coaches from the heartland’s t-ball diamonds to the hardwood courts of Hoosier-hysteria sit up to take note? By his actions, Coach Dungy said a lot. You do not need to sacrifice the worth and dignity of young athletes to hoist a championship banner or raise a trophy. You do not need to be rude, throw chairs, intimidate kids or scream obscenities to get victories.
Hopefully this morning, a lot of coaches, athletes, parents and fans woke up all across Indiana saying, finally, “Goodbye Bobby; Hello Tony.” Only time will tell if Hoosiers are just temporarily giddy with the likes of a Coach Dungy or if we’re really ready to say goodbye to The General’s ways of getting W’s.

As I brushed the snow off my car and slid into the seat, I felt not only the comfort of a warm interior but the music that was playing on my radio. I tuned in a smooth jazz station on my XM and heard the sounds of 3rd Force, titled “You Gotta Be Real.” Now most tunes on that station called Water Colors have no lyrics. This is probably one of the appeals of smooth jazz to me because it helps me collect my thoughts. Today, my thoughts simply centered on the title. It’s a good message for me to think about this morning. I really admire people who are totally comfortable with whom they are. They are often called down to earth or authentic. I wish I were more like them.
I know it’s a pretty tough admission but I have not been as real as I could be and that bothers me. What I ended up asking myself though, was why have I come up short in this critical area? I’ve come to conclude it’s because I have always had this insecure need to be liked by everyone. If someone dislikes me I get frustrated with myself thinking why does his or her opinion of my worth matter so much to me?
I know as a minister, a strong desire to be well thought of can be a serious liability at certain points. I know this from first hand experience having been through a building expansion project recently. I know it’s not all bad, though, because a pastor who wants to be liked tends to work real hard on relationships and will often be known as a person who really cares for people. I even adopted the principle I’ve heard about leadership, as a core value: “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
That being said, I wonder at 44 if I’m any closer to my true self than at any point in my life as I am today. Will dying out to a need for everyone’s approval bring me closer to the genuine person I’m suppose to be? I guess I fear that to make this sacrifice will free me to become some one I don’t like. Will I become less relational, a little harsher, and less tender? Ultimately what will it cost me to be more real? And what will a greater commitment to authenticity look like when I stand in front of a mirror?
Those are pretty high stakes questions to answer! I want to be real. When I’m not, I don’t like it. Midlife. These are strange years to live. Yet how tragic it is that some people ignore these questions and carry on with life, as in the first half of life, unwilling to make adjustments in the locker room to face the second half. I not only gotta be real, I wanna be real. Right now I’m asking hard questions in hopes of getting answers. I’m counting costs and pitting them against reward. My inner life is under reconstruction. Hopefully, the finished product will turn out better than the interior has been the first 44 years.
